Australian Institute of Family Studies

Bibliographies

The following bibliography has been compiled from the Australian Family & Society Abstracts database and other resources held in the Institute's library. Where available a link to the document on the Web is provided. Most items can be borrowed from the Institute's library via the inter library loan system. Online publications in PDF format require Adobe Acrobat Reader.

Relationship formation

Becoming an adult: leaving home, relationships and home ownership among Australian youth.
Hillman, K J; Marks, G N
Camberwell, Vic: Australian Council for Educational Research, 2002, 41p, tables, figures (Longitudinal Surveys of Australian Youth; research report no.28), and Online (1233K)

Today, the achievement of many of the traditional markers of independence is being delayed, or indeed not reached at all. This report examines changing patterns in the transition to adulthood amongst young Australians over the last two decades by analysing data collected from four cohorts of young Australians in relation to moving out of home, establishing a relationship, and buying a house. The report documents the incidence of these events over time and analyses their relationship with social background, demographic and labour market factors.

 

Changing conceptions: young people's views of partnering and parenting.
White, N R
Journal of Sociology v.39 no.2 Jun 2003: 149-164

Birth-rates are declining in Australia, as well as in many other Western industrialised countries. The decline in birth-rates is explored in relation to young Australians' family formation aspirations. Aspirations were found to be linked to experience in the family of origin, perceptions of work and gender. Underlying young people's perceptions was an individualism expressed through prioritized personal career and financial goals, and the need to establish a consolidated sense of self prior to partnering and parenting. (Journal abstract)

 

Changing patterns of partnering.
de Vaus, D; Qu, L; Weston,R
Family Matters no.64 Autumn 2003: 10-15, and Online (PDF 237K)

There have been important changes over the last 25 years in the way in which men and women form partnered relationships. The authors argue that taking a longer-term perspective provides a better understanding of these trends. Within the last quarter century family structures and relationships have changed in significant ways. One of the most striking changes is in the area of partnering, perhaps the most obvious being the increasing tendency for people to live together without marrying (cohabitation) at some stage in their lives and the fall in first marriage and remarriage rates. This article asks what these trends suggest for the future of marriage. The authors explain that those who focus on the last few decades may well draw markedly different conclusions from those adopt a longer term perspective.

 

Changing patterns of relationship formation: implications for fertility.
Weston, R; Qu, L
Melbourne, Vic: Australian Institute of Family Studies, Conference Papers and Presentations - Paper presented at the Australia New Zealand Population Workshop, Canberra, November 2001, 16p, figures, Online only (678K)

This paper examines the links between relationship formation, relationship stability and fertility. It focuses on two studies conducted by the Australian Institute of Family Studies. The first examines changing patterns of first union formation for women, and the extent to which these patterns are linked to relationship stability and child bearing. The study suggests that, while women are increasingly likely to begin their first union with 'cohabitation' (that is, de facto relationship), there is also an increasing trend for first unions to begin at a later age and for cohabitation to end in separation. The second study, which is based on a 2-wave survey spanning 10 years, explores the effects of relationship change and stability on fertility intentions. It suggests that disrupted relationships (along with continued single status) often result in the reversal of intentions to have children. Together, these studies suggest that changing patterns of relationship formation and stability contribute to the fall in fertility and to a blurring of the distinction between voluntary and involuntary childlessness. (Author abstract)

 

Finding love online: the nature and frequency of Australian adults' Internet relationships.
Hardie, Elizabeth; Buzwell, Simone
Australian Journal of Emerging Technologies and Society v.4 no.1 2006: 1-14, tables, Online only (PDF 85K)

The paper presents the results of a telephone survey of 1013 Australian adults asking questions about Internet use, Internet friendships and online romantic relationships. Findings were that 78 per cent had used the Internet, 13 per cent to form online social relationships. Those forming online relationships tended to be students, young, single, comfortable with new technology, likely to vote Green and unlikely to vote Liberal. This group was broken down into those who formed online friendships (n = 82) or online romantic relationships (n = 22) - examination of the latter group revealed that those who experienced online romance spanned all age, gender, political and religious groups. Most met their cyberpartner face to face on many occasions and relationships tended to be lasting. Equal proportions of single and partnered individuals admitted they had experienced online romance, indicating that many cyberdaters may be cybercheaters. The authors conclude that it appears that the Internet is replacing traditional routes to friendship and romance, but further research is needed to clarify the nature and impact of online relationships.

 

For better or for worse: an Australian counsellor's perspective on trends in composition of families.
Pattenden, Rosalie
Relatewell v.10 no. 3 Oct 2006: 4-6

Australian statistics on marriage and divorce over the last decade show a reduction in marriage rates, an increase in divorce rates and an increase in the numbers of couples choosing to cohabit rather than marry. This article discusses reasons for the social trend towards cohabitation, the effects of parental relationships on children, and the value of relationship education and counselling in helping couples maintain a good relationship or separate with the least possible adverse effects on the partners and any children.

 

Forming couple relationships: adolescents' aspirations and young adults' actualities.
Qu, Lixia; Soriano, Grace
Family Matters no.68 Winter 2004: 43-49, tables, and Online (PDF 201K)

The number of people living without a partner has increased substantially over the last few decades. Are men and women shirking the idea of marriage and long-term relationships, or are they having difficulties in forming a satisfying couple relationship? This paper uses two sources of data to assess the aspirations of boys and girls about forming a long-term relationship or getting married: the Australian Temperament Project; and wave 2 of the Household, Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia (HILDA) survey.

 

Inappropriately prolonged courtships.
Kerin, T
Threshold no.76 Apr 2003: 13-14

The decision to marry is very significant, the author says, but if a couple waits until the relationship is perfect, the wedding day may never come. He argues the benefits of impulsive courtships and explains why some of the reasons that couples postpone marriage are the very reasons they should not get married.

 

Leaving the family home: household formation and housing tenure patterns in Australia. (PDF 1.7Mkb)
Flatau, P; James, I; Watson, R; Wood, G; Hendershott, P H
In: HILDA Conference 2003. Melbourne, Vic: Melbourne Institute of Applied Economic and Social Research, 2003, 33p, tables, Online only

Has the age at which Australians leave home significantly risen in the last two decades? If so does this trend primarily reflect students staying longer in education and young adults having children later? To answer these questions the authors undertake a hazard analysis of the home leaving process across generations of Australians in the Household Income and Labour Dynamics in Australia (HILDA) sample scope.

 

Legal recognition of same-sex relationships.
Anthony, Karina; Drabsch, Talina
Sydney, NSW: NSW Parliamentary Library Research Service, 2006, 62p, (Briefing Paper no.09/2006), Online (PDF 543K)

The legal recognition of same-sex relationships in New South Wales and elsewhere in Australia has increased in the last 20 years to a point where most jurisdictions generally provide same-sex couples with the same rights and obligations as heterosexual de facto couples. However, the extent to which same-sex relationships are or should be recognised continues to elicit much debate. This paper surveys the legal arrangements and the debate over further reforms. It outlines the various relationship recognition models, and legislation in NSW and other Australian states and territories and other countries. Arguments for and against same-sex marriage, same-sex parenting and access to assisted reproductive technologies are highlighted.

 

Love and money: a theoretical and empirical analysis of household sorting and inequality.
Fernandez, R; Guner, N; Knowles, J
Syracuse, N Y: Maxwell School of Citizenship and Public Affairs, Syracuse University, 2001, 51p, figures, tables (Luxembourg Income Study working paper no.283) and Online (PDF 613K)

This study examines the interactions between household matching, inequality, and per capita income across 34 countries. The authors explore the notion that an increased skill premium will mean that marital matches between different classes will become less likely as marrying down becomes more costly. The consequences of this will be greater income inequality between skilled and unskilled workers, larger fertility differentials across household types, and lower per capita income. They develop a model that explores the difference between skilled and unskilled individuals as they form households, have children and make decisions regarding what to consume. A positive and significant relationship was found between skill premium and marital sorting.

 

Making marriage, domestic relationships and family work. Part XXI.
Burnard, Don
Relatewell v.10 no.2 Jul 2006: 8-11

A firm commitment between partners requires an intimate mental, emotional and physical connection. This article discusses the issue of mate selection. It looks at the effects of poor mate selection, the way society emphasises the wrong priorities in mate selection, and communication and intimacy between partners.

 

Negotiating the life course: changes in individual and family transitions.
McDonald, P; Evans, A
Canberra, ACT: Research School of Social Sciences, Australian National University, 2003, 32p (Negotiating the Life Course discussion paper DP-013), Online only (PDF 594K)

The period of young adulthood, from age 18 to 30 years, has been characterised by Rindfuss (1991) as 'demographically dense' because it is in these years that young people move away from their families of origin and move towards forming families of their own. The increased tendency for young people to delay these life course transitions means that the demographically dense age-range is being extended beyond age 30. This paper addresses the issues of change and dispersion in the pattern and timing of individual life course transitions. The authors focus on five key life course events, leaving home, cohabitation, marriage, fertility, and relationship breakdown and compare the experience of four birth cohorts, those born in the 1940s, 1950s, 1960s and 1970s. They hypothesise that increased delay and dispersion of the timing of life course events is associated with the perception that young people must invest in human capital formation to a much greater degree than was the case in the past. (Author abstract)

 

Partnership formation and stability.
Weston, Ruth; Qu, Lixia; de Vaus, David
In: Families Matter: 9th Australian Institute of Family Studies Conference, Melbourne, February 2005 - proceedings. Melbourne, Vic: Australian Institute of Family Studies, 2005, 17p, figures, Online only

On face value, it might be expected that a period of cohabitation would give couples unique insight into their compatibility, thereby helping them to make informed decisions about whether or not to marry. However, most of the research into this issue in Australia and other western countries suggest quite the opposite trend: indirect marriages tend to have a shorter life than direct marriages. Various explanations have been proposed for this phenomenon. It is the purpose of this paper to suggest a framework that should help identify important mechanisms that link marriage entry pathway with marital stability and help organise the research literature. (Author abstract)

 

Partnership: the basis of a healthy relationship.
Leyden, Stephen
Threshold no.88 Dec 2006: 21

Marital roles based on gender and patriarchy have been replaced by the concept of partnership. However, although partnership is now the dominant idea underpinning marriage and relationships, research shows that most people do not understand how to put the concept into practice.

 

Preference for SMS versus telephone calls in initiating romantic relationships.
Byrne, Ruth; Findlay, Bruce
Australian Journal of Emerging Technologies and Society v.2 no.1 2004, 14p, Online only

This study examined sex differences in the likelihood of initiating first moves (toward relationship establishment) or first dates via short message service (SMS) text messaging and telephone calls. The sample comprised 159 females and 107 males, mean age 28 years, who completed an on-line self-report questionnaire that assessed relationship initiating behaviours. Whereas females were more likely to initiate first moves using SMS than telephone calls, males had no preference for communication channel. In initiating first dates, males were more likely to telephone than SMS, whereas females were reluctant to initiate regardless of the communication channel. Although males were more likely than females to initiate first moves and first dates via telephone calls, there were no sex differences when initiating via SMS. It was concluded that while SMS appears to have somewhat influenced the manner in which romantic first moves are initiated, traditional gender role expectations and preference for telephone communication are still strong when initiating first dates. (Journal abstract)

 

Relationships, marriage and parenthood: views of young people and their parents.
Smart, D
Family Matters no.63 Spring - Summer 2002: 28-35, figures and Online (PDF 261K)

Australia's birth rate is now below population replacement rate, and continues to decrease. The author asks whether this trend is paralleled by diminished aspirations for marriage and parenthood. Data from the Australian Temperament Project (a longitudinal study of the psychosocial development of a large, representative of Australian children born in Victoria between September 1982 and January 1983) are used to explore the views, hopes, wishes and plans of teenagers and their parents for future relationships, marriage and family formation. The paper seeks to shed light on transgenerational influences by also obtaining the views of parents, as well as adolescents, on these issues. Three questions are addressed: What expectations do teenagers and their parents have concerning the young person's future relationships, marriage and parenthood? Are there differences in the aspirations between boys and girls? Are these aspirations related to family circumstances, interpersonal relationships, and personal characteristics?

 

The adult children of divorce: pure relationships and family values?
Hughes, Kate
Journal of Sociology v.41 no.1 Mar 2005: 69-86

Giddens and Beck-Gernsheim argue that there has been a shift from stable family formations to relationships that are inherently fragile and temporary. Both propose that intimate relationships in late modernity have been marked by reflexivity and contingency. Although these are not new propositions, little empirical work has been done on the contours of such relationships and the meanings that they have for individuals. This article explores Giddens' and Beck-Gernsheim's contentions through looking at the perceptions of relationships, and the family values, of members of Generation X whose parents divorced and who subsequently grew up in a single-parent, step-, or blended family. In particular it discusses the suggestion that we are moving into an era in which 'the normalisation of fragility' will become central to people's intimate relationships. (Journal abstract)

 

The changing meaning of 'de facto' relationships.
Millbank, Jenni
Current Family Law v.12 no.2 Apr 2006: 82-93

The meaning of 'de facto relationship' has changed dramatically in Australian law in recent years. The most obvious changes are the raft of legislative reforms including same sex couples as de facto couples in a wide array of state laws through 1999 - 2004. Additionally, an examination of recent case law reveals notable changes to the definition of 'de facto relationship' through judicial interpretation, with a distinct trend towards a broader, more flexible interpretation of the de facto category, a less formalistic approach to the indicia of cohabitation, and a lesser focus on the traditional hallmarks that are thought to be 'marriage like', such as public reputation, mingled finances and putative monogamy. These cases are important signposts, as the Family Court will soon be grappling with questions around de facto relationships, including how to determine the existence and duration of a relationship. (Journal abstract)

 

The keys to living happily ever after: a letter to engaged couples.
Pattenden, Rosalie
Threshold no.88 Dec 2006: 26

Ten essential ingredients for successful coupledom are presented. They include making an effort to make your partner feel special, pay attention to the goals and friendships of each individual and the couple, be informed about your partner's life, negotiate your own relationship rules, show love, listen and communicate about problems, be calm when discussing issues, sort out or manage disagreements, do not criticise, neglect or be aggressive to your partner, and keep romance alive.

 

The recognition of same sex relationships in the ACT: discussion paper.
Australian Capital Territory. Department of Justice and Community Safety
Canberra, ACT: Department of Justice and Community Safety, 2005, 18p, Online (PDF 155K)

The ACT government is seeking public submissions on the question of whether legislation should provide to same sex couples all of the legal rights which a married, opposite sex couple would have. This paper examines three possible legislative options that will enable people of the same sex to enter into a legally recognised union. The three models explored are registration, civil union and marriage. The paper also summarises law reform in this area to date, reports on public consultation about law reform, and discusses human rights and constitutional considerations.

 

There are no good men left.
Walters, Kathleen M
Threshold no.81 Jul 2004: 8-11

Modern single women often find it difficult to find the right man at the right time of their lives, this article says. It considers two social changes that have affected the way people partner: an emphasis on early career development for women, and changes in the mating system. It discusses relationship fatigue, cohabitation, casual dating, different levels of commitment, and argues that the new mating system is adapted to men's self interests.

 

Transfer of attachment from parents to romantic partners: effects of individual and relationship variables.
Feeney, Judith A
Journal of Family Studies v.10 no.2 Oct 2004: 220-238, tables, figure

Attachment theory emphasises the importance of close relationships across the lifespan. Research has documented the gradual transfer of attachment from parents to romantic partners, and the effects of relationship length and secure attachment. The present study was designed to confirm the effects of romantic involvement (dating, cohabiting, married) on attachment transfer, and to explore the role of individual and relationship variables in the transfer process. Young adults (N = 107) completed questionnaires assessing age, relationship length, involvement, relationship closeness, conflict, attachment dimensions (anxiety and avoidance), and attachment figures. Greater romantic involvement was associated with stronger attachment to partners and weaker attachment to mothers and friends. Attachment to partner was related positively to age, relationship length and closeness, and negatively to avoidance; the combination of high avoidance and low anxiety predicted particularly weak attachment. Further, anxious individuals reported higher levels of desired than actual attachment. The results are discussed in terms of attachment principles, relational dynamics, and implications for individual and couple adjustment. (Journal abstract)

 

Understanding the 'multi-generation squeeze': the impact of delayed transitions to independence of young adults.
Mitchell, D; Evans, A
In: Social security in a long life society: 4th International Research Conference on Social Security, Antwerp, 5-7 May 2003. Geneva, Switzerland: International Social Security Association, 2003, 14p, figures, tables. Online only (PDF 293K)

The delayed transition to full financial independence of young adults in Australia is identified by the authors as a newly emerging element in the multi generation problem. They suggest that this delayed transition stems from a number of sources: extended periods of education, especially in tertiary training; uncertain labour markets and difficulties in entering stable full time employment; and accessing affordable accommodation outside the parental home. The authors describe the impacts of delayed transition among young adults, with particular attention to delays in partnering and fertility decisions, and the extent to which this may contribute further to the ageing of the population. They discuss long term implications of delayed transition and possible avenues for policy redesign.

 

What is commitment? How married and cohabiting parents talk about their relationships.
Pryor, Jan; Roberts, Josie
Family Matters no.71 Winter 2005: 24-31, tables

In this article the authors discuss the findings of a small qualitative New Zealand study that examined the accounts of married and cohabiting parents about their views of relationship commitment. The authors asked couples to describe the concept of commitment, their experiences of commitment as partners and parents, why they had chosen to marry or not marry, and barriers to leaving their relationships.

 

What is it with men and commitment, anyway?
Stanley, Scott M
Threshold no.83 Mar 2005: 4-11

In this discussion of the role of commitment in marriage, and differences between men's and women's attitudes towards commitment, the following aspects are considered: what is commitment?; why commitment develops; where we find few differences between men and women in commitment; differences between the sexes in views of marriage and commitment; the desire for marriage; why men won't commit; what happens when men cross the line deliberately; walking over the line versus being dragged across it; commitment versus attachment based motivation.

 

What makes a relationship work? Findings from a 'vox pop' survey at a recent Australian wedding.
Dakis, Cheryl
Threshold no.88 Dec 2006: 16-19, figure

Guests at a Melbourne wedding were asked to nominate their top five hints on what makes a relationship work. Four major themes arose from the results: inject and maintain fun and spontaneity; the importance of communication; conflict resolution tips; and develop a sense of togetherness. This article discusses the results and includes some of the guests' comments.

 

What women want next.
Maushart, Susan
Melbourne, Vic: Text Publishing, 2005, 259p

What women really want is the freedom to decide for themselves how to live, this book says. Feminism's first and second waves provided women with opportunities, but how can they manage those opportunities to produce a satisfying and meaningful life? The book considers what women want from love and sex, marriage and motherhood, friends and family, and career. It concludes that what women want next is the courage to choose fearlessly and the wisdom to choose well.

 

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